Rattling Thoughts ...

Surpirsing but true...Have not found time to post an article on my blog.I think this happens in India .Way back in UK i always had time to time to wrte some thing ,whether I post it or not.Back home,becomes very difficult .

Nevertheless am happy that I have been able to pen down a few thoughts going round in the GRY AREA .I miss Uk for various reasons,most important is having time for oneself,to know think,realise ,retrospect etc if things are going the way as planned or not!!!

Trust me I always had time for myself in UK & used to have a life to look forward to...Its always a run in professional lives for people working in big cities in Indiaspecially in Mumbai .The travel takes the life out of you to realise that the week/month  is already over ....The other day my wife & I realised that TIME is running very fast .MUMBAI is the city of dreams for many ...

Many more thought sin the coming days !!!!!

Peace of Mind - Part I

I am at times perplexed with the various people preaching about peace of mind.I always used to think what the heck ??? cant people even do such a small thing in life .As I grew up, I realized that this was the most daunting task that only a few selected individuals could have and the rest struggle to have or even understand the beauty of this state.

This is a no thought state and is very rare for common people ,people who donot perform any kind of meditation,yoga or any of the spiritual practices ,its not possible.But I always it feel that every one of us has to experience in life ...We need to do everything in life as far as experiencing it is concerned.Its like doing everything in life but postponing this very important aspect in life.


Yoga and meditation should be taught to kids and this should be regularly practiced all through life for physical and mental balance in life.I always remember the elders in the society always say : Are you by teaching all these things trying to make our kids sanyasi's????? I do not understand why most of us donot look at life in a compartmental way ???   

In this fast paced modern world today people are again realizing the importance of mental peace ,corporates have started having counselling sessions,art of living classes,yoga sessions for its employees.These are agian gaining momentum from the stress level going in ones life.We today have all become result oriented in lfe rather than method oriented doing things against the nature.We all want results   

There are many definitions of meditation ,but I would expalin as an internal quest for the following things : 
Who we are and Whats our purpose of life ???? Meditation gives us mental health and improves our life style,which is important for a better living .I personally think more than wealth ,is we really can give these good life and principles to our kids,thats the best they can get.We also need to ensure that we follow of these in our life to tell them and teach them.The importance of these are not in by any one in prime youth age ,but only a few can realize it early ,who benefit a lot. 


It high time ,that we realize the importance of these and follow it religiously as we do things in our career .God and god reaching methods always should not start in old age as we do in India.We need to have the gratitude to GOD for having given us what is required in time .As we thank people for the instant help they give us when necessary,similarly we also need to thank GOD .

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Its Hard to Say Goodbye!!!!

I have been going to the airport to give my family and friends a send off for the last 10 yrs and have never felt like this before .I have actually started feeling during my last 3visits to airport.I realised today that I can't do this for a while..Today I had been to the airport to drop  my cousin(Sasi) , who was off to India and IT WAS DIFFICULT , mostly because he was leaving to India and I miss home a lot these days . I broke down as soon as he walked past the security and was invisible. I then realised am not going to see him for more than a month and he was travelling to my motherland, Karmabhoomi , my Swades (On an entirely different note, remember SRKs dialogue in Chak de ,while training the girls he says I-N-D-I-A)It just rings a bell in my ears. Woahhhhh !!!!


OMG I can't get over this for a while now ...I am sure of THAT !!

I was in a similar situation when my wife was travelling to India twice , yes twice , once in January , for her Visa and then in April, for a wedding.As I was on the way to airport with her  I was all fine and happy that she gets to travel and all that blah blah .. but suddenly it hits me that not only would I be staying alone here ,but also she gets to go to I N D I A  ...Truly what people say is rite, u miss the place you love more when ur away from it.Perhaps we aware of how attached we are with certain things when we are away ....sometimes I miss my family back in India so badly that I just want to drop everything right now , as they are and be with the family.thankfully my wife does not disagree..But we really cant do that... I wish I could be Superman and  cross continents with in no time.


I guess every one in their life goes through this phase where they feel all homesick and Indiasick and over a period of time get habituated to it.I wonder whether we develop a thick skin towards these feelings or are we just too shy of admitting this in life ??

I still remember the first time when my wife travelled from India to get here , all alone for her studies .We were all emotional in the airport...It really took some time to get adjusted to digest the fact.When I travelled to join her a couple of months later ,I was even more emotional than the others at the airport.The feeling of meeting our loved ones after a long period is in itself a great moment of joy and excitement.I wonder how people can stay away from their loved ones for long periods and don't meet them for years together.I personally know know of people who moved to US 7 yrs back and have not visited INDIA till date.I wonder how they live without visiting their family and friends ???
Sorry I am not talking of those who despite staying in the same city don't find time to meet


I must admit Its hard to stay out of INDIA without visiting our family and friends for long intervals

Shayari...

Yu bekarar karke humein mat chodiye...Hum tho khud ko aapke hawale kar chale...
Dil ne kaha jalwe husn yaar ke..laaya hain kaun nihe zameen pe..


Humpe ishq karne ke liye zor mat daliye ..hum bhi is mod se guzre hain
Dekhne walo ke yeh na lagna chaye hi aap ko humse ishq hain.


Hamara dil tho ek panchi jo is dal se us dal pe udtha hian
Magar woh hain jo har phool ko apna ghar bana lete hain.

Its time ...we realise it

Its time we treat them as individuals and look beyond the boundary of our relationships....

I happen to meet an old friend of mine during my last visit to London .Its been over 10 yrs we met. Can’t actually describe my frame of mind when I met him, he was one of my friends friend. I met him during my Inter days and soon he became a good friend of mine .Later on both became busy with our lives and dint remain in  touch. He moved to London 7yrs back and is settled here.

I always looked at him as an old friend of mine and dint realise that we both  are completely different individuals from our last meeting. We grow up and have our own individual identities which have to be respected by everyone.

A couple of days later a thought struck me which made me restless and also inspired me to write this post .I was wondering that n the cloud of our relationship with the person we often forget their individuality and behave ...All through the years we treat people on the relations we share with them : wife, Mom, dad, sister, brother, Uncle, Aunt, friend, son, daughter...whatever relation it may...but the fact is that before we share a relation with them they are individuals in their own place and we need to respect them for what they are. 

Life is too short to judge people depending on our relationship rather than knowing the actual person .We share many relationships in our life and also need to respect them to cherish memories

Life is too short to really bother about what people think ....Its important to live our life on our terms but also ensure that we donot shrug away from our responsibilities .....


Live every act fully, as if it were your last. 

Morning Blues ...

Its really was a strange feeling when I woke up this morning from bed...I am an early riser and like to complete my morning routine and be ready to go.The alarm rang at 5:30 am and I switched it off ..I woke up some time later when I could hear a phone ring in a feeble sound to a shrill one.It was my wife's phone ringing(India Calls).Then I woke up .


But all of a sudden I realised that the morning was completely different from the previous ones for years that passed by...I am still puzzled as to what that feeling was ...Can't describe in words was some what strange....


Let me try recollecting it and put it down

HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!

They are special days in ones life...u'r showered with wishes,blessings,greetings,gifts,cakes,messages,e-mails from
our near n dear and also from people who have heard of you..
Birthdays are to be celebrated to make us refresh our memories over the years and make this year more special than the previous ones.

Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu,
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu,
Happy Birrrrthday Dear Harsha ,
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu! 

A few years back, not so long ago, heaven and earth erupted into a major celebration with the news of your impending adventure into this very time and space. You see, someone like you doesn't come along all that often. In fact, there's never been a single one like you, nor is there ever ANY possibility that another will come again. You're an Angel among us. Someone, whose eyes see what no others will EVER see, whose ears hear what no others will EVER hear, and whose perspective and feelings will NEVER, ever be duplicated. Without YOU, the Universe, and ALL THAT IS, would be sadly less than it is.

Quite simply:

You're the kind of person,
Who's hard to forget,
A one-in-a-million
To the people you've met.
Your friends are as varied
As the places you go,
And they all want to tell you
In case you don't know:
That you make a big difference
In the lives that you touch,
By taking so little
And giving so much!

You are so AWESOME! For your birthday, friends and angels from every corner of the Universe, including buddies you didn't know you had, will be with you to wish you the HAPPIEST of days and an exciting new year in time and space. You won't be alone!


The above message really moved me to tears when I read it .....Its really nice to make people feel special on their BIRTHDAYS....its their day 


I believe firmly that ....the more number of people wish them,the more faster their dreams  come true....


TRY IT ...IT WORKS