HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!

They are special days in ones life...u'r showered with wishes,blessings,greetings,gifts,cakes,messages,e-mails from
our near n dear and also from people who have heard of you..
Birthdays are to be celebrated to make us refresh our memories over the years and make this year more special than the previous ones.

Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu,
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu,
Happy Birrrrthday Dear Harsha ,
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu! 

A few years back, not so long ago, heaven and earth erupted into a major celebration with the news of your impending adventure into this very time and space. You see, someone like you doesn't come along all that often. In fact, there's never been a single one like you, nor is there ever ANY possibility that another will come again. You're an Angel among us. Someone, whose eyes see what no others will EVER see, whose ears hear what no others will EVER hear, and whose perspective and feelings will NEVER, ever be duplicated. Without YOU, the Universe, and ALL THAT IS, would be sadly less than it is.

Quite simply:

You're the kind of person,
Who's hard to forget,
A one-in-a-million
To the people you've met.
Your friends are as varied
As the places you go,
And they all want to tell you
In case you don't know:
That you make a big difference
In the lives that you touch,
By taking so little
And giving so much!

You are so AWESOME! For your birthday, friends and angels from every corner of the Universe, including buddies you didn't know you had, will be with you to wish you the HAPPIEST of days and an exciting new year in time and space. You won't be alone!


The above message really moved me to tears when I read it .....Its really nice to make people feel special on their BIRTHDAYS....its their day 


I believe firmly that ....the more number of people wish them,the more faster their dreams  come true....


TRY IT ...IT WORKS 

School Days ....

I am sure that the school days are one of the best memories for everyone.I have a few .. actually loads of fond memories of my school days ,I was watching a movie called Surya S/o Krishnan ,directed by the famous director from Kollywood( thats the lame name for Tamil Cinema btw)a couple of days ago and LOVED the movie. I was remembering all my college and school days.
Its always fun to meet all our schoolmates and go down the memory lane with them.Truly going to be a fun time when we all have a re union .I have been in touch with a few mates of mine ove the past few years.To name a few : Sai ,Kaushik,Nimish,Indira not to forget Surender and  a few others.Sai ,Nimish and myself we were the last benchers and always our teachers favourites (most wanted in every class) .Sai has been in touch withover the years even after schooling . During a small gathering in hyderabad met Karthik,Indira and Surender. Then when I moved to Bangalore for an year I met Kaushik ,was fun we used to play TT on the terrace top.Sai also came in a couple of times to play along with us.Then moved to Mumbai and lost touch with all.Thru FB and orkut found most of them in my group again.


About my school days it was fun all the time.Waiting whether our teachers have come to the school,will we have the class ? To name a few instances :

• We once in our 9th standard were asked to draw the heart on the black board and the whole class was standing since we could not and  then entered our favourite Mr.Uncle Sir ...guess what happened then...
• Chalk piece fights were the best during breaks and were always by the Head mistress for this ...
• We always we waiting to see if our Physics lecturer was absent to freak ....
• Not to forget our PT sir who always favoured the girls
• Our Social mam was one of the coolest teachers
• English mam was like OMG the toughest.
• Maths Sir ,who threw what he  had in hand in the name of discipline
• Biology was taught by our Head Mistress and not a class has gone without punishments
• Lunch time was the best time where the reservations for others boxes used to happen during the third period of the day
• Exams were always boring but some how we managed to slide though to the next class
• Parent teachers meeting ,one plat form for the months complaints
• Karate classes were again one more session
• We always had our maths classes after the social classes and was fun when our maths faculty used to walk in wantedly .....
•  Forget to mention that FLAMES was also part of our routine along with BOOK CRICKET during the science classes..
• Chemistry is an interesting subject but our madam put us to sleep during this class...

This visit to Hyd, I am planning for a re union with all school mates to visit our school  ....

BETTER RELATIONSHIPS

I happen to read this article and found it interesting and needy for all of us in todays world.

Three Words That Make Relationships Better

Three-Word Phrases, can be tools to help develop every relationship. 

There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships.

The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship.

~    Let me help:Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.

~  I understand you:People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know - in so many  little ways - that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. And this can apply to any relationship.

~  I respect you:Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another person is a true equal.  If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become closer friends.  This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

~  I miss you:Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other “I miss you.”  This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.  Consider how important you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say “I miss you.”

~  Maybe you’re right:This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument.  The implication when you say “maybe you’re right” is the humility of admitting, “maybe  I’m wrong”.  Let’s face it.  When you have an argument with someone,  all you normally do is solidify the other person’s point of view. They, or you, will not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you.  Saying “maybe you’re right” can open the door to explore the subject more.  You may then have the opportunity to express your view in a way that is understandable to the other person. 

~ Please forgive me:Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

~  I thank you:Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of  friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

~  Count on me:A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship.  It is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating “you can count on me.”

~   I’ll be there:If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase “I’ll be there.” Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us.  We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

~  Go for it:We are all unique individuals. Don’t try to get your friends to conform to your ideals.  Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far out they seem to you.  God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams.  Tell them to “go for it.”

~  I love you:Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person’s deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse,  your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words: “I love you.”  Love is a choice.  You can love even when the feeling  is gone