5.31.2010

Shayari...

Yu bekarar karke humein mat chodiye...Hum tho khud ko aapke hawale kar chale...
Dil ne kaha jalwe husn yaar ke..laaya hain kaun nihe zameen pe..


Humpe ishq karne ke liye zor mat daliye ..hum bhi is mod se guzre hain
Dekhne walo ke yeh na lagna chaye hi aap ko humse ishq hain.


Hamara dil tho ek panchi jo is dal se us dal pe udtha hian
Magar woh hain jo har phool ko apna ghar bana lete hain.

Don't Repent In Life ...

When you really need something, 

it will go away from you.

Try to catch it.
You will not get it again, if you let it go now.

If you didn't try, then don't repent.
Because you didn't try, when you had the chance to hold it...

Its time ...we realise it


Its time we treat them as individuals and look beyond the boundary of our relationships....

I happen to meet an old friend of mine during my last visit to London .Its been over 10 yrs we met. Can’t actually describe my frame of mind when I met him, he was one of my friends friend. I met him during my Inter days and soon he became a good friend of mine .Later on both became busy with our lives and dint remain in  touch. He moved to London 7yrs back and is settled here.

I always looked at him as an old friend of mine and dint realise that we both  are completely different individuals from our last meeting. We grow up and have our own individual identities which have to be respected by everyone.

A couple of days later a thought struck me which made me restless and also inspired me to write this post .I was wondering that n the cloud of our relationship with the person we often forget their individuality and behave ...All through the years we treat people on the relations we share with them : wife, Mom, dad, sister, brother, Uncle, Aunt, friend, son, daughter...whatever relation it may...but the fact is that before we share a relation with them they are individuals in their own place and we need to respect them for what they are. 

Life is too short to judge people depending on our relationship rather than knowing the actual person .We share many relationships in our life and also need to respect them to cherish memories


Life is too short to really bother about what people think ....Its important to live our life on our terms but also ensure that we donot shrug away from our responsibilities .....


Live every act fully, as if it were your last. 

Morning Blues ...

Its really was a strange feeling when I woke up this morning from bed...I am an early riser and like to complete my morning routine and be ready to go.The alarm rang at 5:30 am and I switched it off ..I woke up some time later when I could hear a phone ring in a feeble sound to a shrill one.It was my wife's phone ringing(India Calls).Then I woke up .


But all of a sudden I realised that the morning was completely different from the previous ones for years that passed by...I am still puzzled as to what that feeling was ...Can't describe in words was some what strange....


Let me try recollecting it and put it down

5.29.2010

GRATITUDE !!!!

Gratitude keeps us centered and wards off jealousy and negativity. 

Here are five little things we can do each day to nourish our sense of gratitude: 

1. Choose your friends wisely. If you strive to be spiritually strong, supportive, empowering, intelligent, energetic, and positive, seek those characteristics in others. 

Help your friends develop more positive traits by living those positive traits yourself. Know what kind of friends will help you nurture your soul, and set out to find some. 

2. Help your friends cultivate gratitude. Before you say anything about a friend's situation, remember that everyone's situation is unique. I've seen it happen to myself and to my friends. They'll be perfectly happy until someone tells them they're being mistreated. Suddenly, they're upset. 

Don't let your friends wield such power, and work to avoid wielding such power yourself. 

Day by day, hour by hour, make a goal to stop complaining about your life. Make a pact with your friends to cut the complaints from your conversations. 

3. Give the gift of gratitude to your children. Help your children to be satisfied with the simple things while giving them the innate power and ability to achieve whatever they want in life...by living in such a way yourself. 

4. Say "Thank You." Whom in your life do you appreciate? Let them know, whether it's your mom, your kids, your friends, your husband, your child's daycare provider or the helpful woman behind the cosmetics counter. 

A heartfelt "thank you" often does the trick. Make it a habit and your attention will suddenly turn to all the things people do for you. 

Also, write thank you notes regularly - not just after a gift exchange - and be mindful of all the ways you show your appreciation by the things you do in return. 

Another idea: Spend 15 minutes writing a letter to your children. In this note, tell them how much you love them, why you're thankful for them, and all the ways they have enriched your life. This can be something you give them now or after they have grown. 

5. Be mindful of the little things. Today, strive to be aware of all the aspects of your personal, professional, and family life for which you are thankful. 

Take a few minutes today to appreciate nature. Go for a walk and notice only those things that are beautiful. Whether you focus on the stars above, a distant mountain range, or the cottonwood tree in your backyard, try to notice the details. Give thanks for the beauty that surrounds us. 

Oprah Winfrey and Sarah Ban Breathnach, author of Simple Abundance, speak often of the importance of a Gratitude Journal, in which, at the end of each day, you record at least five things you're grateful for. 

Regardless of whether you write down these items, spend some time each day to focus on the little things in your life that make each day special. Perhaps it's your child's toothless grin. A warm home. Delicious food enjoyed with family. 

Together, let's work on focusing on what we have - not on what we don't have - and all the ways we can help one another have more gratitude for the gift of life.



Lets be grateful to everything that we have in life ... 

5.16.2010

HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!

They are special days in ones life...u'r showered with wishes,blessings,greetings,gifts,cakes,messages,e-mails from
our near n dear and also from people who have heard of you..
Birthdays are to be celebrated to make us refresh our memories over the years and make this year more special than the previous ones.
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu,
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu,
Happy Birrrrthday Dear Harsha ,
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu! 


A few years back, not so long ago, heaven and earth erupted into a major celebration with the news of your impending adventure into this very time and space. You see, someone like you doesn't come along all that often. In fact, there's never been a single one like you, nor is there ever ANY possibility that another will come again. You're an Angel among us. Someone, whose eyes see what no others will EVER see, whose ears hear what no others will EVER hear, and whose perspective and feelings will NEVER, ever be duplicated. Without YOU, the Universe, and ALL THAT IS, would be sadly less than it is.

Quite simply:

You're the kind of person,
Who's hard to forget,
A one-in-a-million
To the people you've met.
Your friends are as varied
As the places you go,
And they all want to tell you
In case you don't know:
That you make a big difference
In the lives that you touch,
By taking so little
And giving so much!

You are so AWESOME! For your birthday, friends and angels from every corner of the Universe, including buddies you didn't know you had, will be with you to wish you the HAPPIEST of days and an exciting new year in time and space. You won't be alone!



The above message really moved me to tears when I read it .....Its really nice to make people feel special on their BIRTHDAYS....its their day 


I believe firmly that ....the more number of people wish them,the more faster their dreams  come true....


TRY IT ...IT WORKS 

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