Life is full of compromises,conditions,situations,promises,hobbies,likes,dislikes.Well I would say,Life is like a mobile package you don't get everything that you want.Sorry no customization is required,so you compromise or rather adjust to what is available.
On the contrary , Life is a very beautiful journey on how we react to events happening in our lives.We always need to move ahead in life,relationships,career no matter what ever difficulties,crises,problems or set backs we encounter.Every one comes into this world with limited tears and unlimited happiness.We tend to forget over a period of time that GOD,The Almighty has given mankind a very special gift - To forget things.
I don't intend to say that we need to forget every event in our life.But it would be nice if we could move ahead with time leaving behind the unwanted events which occurred in our lives. We all come in to this world with a pot in side us.It is similar to our belly and I would like to term it as Emotional Pot ...
The emotional pot is of a standard size and all the feelings that we generate during our life are filled in this.It is necessary to have an outlet for this pot,which GOD has given it to us in the form of our emotions.It necessary for each one of us to empty this pot
periodically to ensure that we have healthy relationships, good thoughts,positive emotions and a great life to live.If we are always happy ,our face is radiating ,glowing or bubbly.If we are sad we tend to have a frowned face,dull and no life...
How can we empty this POT ? Its a general tendency of every human to remember all the good things that have occurred and also the bad things that have happened.The best to clean this pot is to constantly making an effort to start forgetting them in phases or once for all
say Shift+Delete,which will help us feeling .If this cleaning is not done regularly ,we tend to accumalate this over a period of time,which will result in EMOTIONAL OUTBURST.
Emotional outburst results in frustration,fights,strained relations,outburst of anger and MOOD swings.All these feelings tend to create a major imbalance in life or change in lifestyle.
Well end of the day we all have one life and one chance to make the
best of our life.
Lets try making this a better place to live ...
Aditya
Showing posts with label emotional stuff. Show all posts
Showing posts with label emotional stuff. Show all posts
6.24.2010
6.21.2010
Its Hard to Say Goodbye!!!!
I have been going to the airport to give my family and friends a send off for the last 10 yrs and have never felt like this before .I have actually started feeling during my last 3visits to airport.I realised today that I can't do this for a while..Today I had been to the airport to drop my cousin(Sasi) , who was off to India and IT WAS DIFFICULT , mostly because he was leaving to India and I miss home a lot these days . I broke down as soon as he walked past the security and was invisible. I then realised am not going to see him for more than a month and he was travelling to my motherland, Karmabhoomi , my Swades (On an entirely different note, remember SRKs dialogue in Chak de ,while training the girls he says I-N-D-I-A)It just rings a bell in my ears. Woahhhhh !!!!
OMG I can't get over this for a while now ...I am sure of THAT !!
I was in a similar situation when my wife was travelling to India twice , yes twice , once in January , for her Visa and then in April, for a wedding.As I was on the way to airport with her I was all fine and happy that she gets to travel and all that blah blah .. but suddenly it hits me that not only would I be staying alone here ,but also she gets to go to I N D I A ...Truly what people say is rite, u miss the place you love more when ur away from it.Perhaps we aware of how attached we are with certain things when we are away ....sometimes I miss my family back in India so badly that I just want to drop everything right now , as they are and be with the family.thankfully my wife does not disagree..But we really cant do that... I wish I could be Superman and cross continents with in no time.
I guess every one in their life goes through this phase where they feel all homesick and Indiasick and over a period of time get habituated to it.I wonder whether we develop a thick skin towards these feelings or are we just too shy of admitting this in life ??
I still remember the first time when my wife travelled from India to get here , all alone for her studies .We were all emotional in the airport...It really took some time to get adjusted to digest the fact.When I travelled to join her a couple of months later ,I was even more emotional than the others at the airport.The feeling of meeting our loved ones after a long period is in itself a great moment of joy and excitement.I wonder how people can stay away from their loved ones for long periods and don't meet them for years together.I personally know know of people who moved to US 7 yrs back and have not visited INDIA till date.I wonder how they live without visiting their family and friends ???
Sorry I am not talking of those who despite staying in the same city don't find time to meet
I must admit Its hard to stay out of INDIA without visiting our family and friends for long intervals
OMG I can't get over this for a while now ...I am sure of THAT !!
I was in a similar situation when my wife was travelling to India twice , yes twice , once in January , for her Visa and then in April, for a wedding.As I was on the way to airport with her I was all fine and happy that she gets to travel and all that blah blah .. but suddenly it hits me that not only would I be staying alone here ,but also she gets to go to I N D I A ...Truly what people say is rite, u miss the place you love more when ur away from it.Perhaps we aware of how attached we are with certain things when we are away ....sometimes I miss my family back in India so badly that I just want to drop everything right now , as they are and be with the family.thankfully my wife does not disagree..But we really cant do that... I wish I could be Superman and cross continents with in no time.
I guess every one in their life goes through this phase where they feel all homesick and Indiasick and over a period of time get habituated to it.I wonder whether we develop a thick skin towards these feelings or are we just too shy of admitting this in life ??
I still remember the first time when my wife travelled from India to get here , all alone for her studies .We were all emotional in the airport...It really took some time to get adjusted to digest the fact.When I travelled to join her a couple of months later ,I was even more emotional than the others at the airport.The feeling of meeting our loved ones after a long period is in itself a great moment of joy and excitement.I wonder how people can stay away from their loved ones for long periods and don't meet them for years together.I personally know know of people who moved to US 7 yrs back and have not visited INDIA till date.I wonder how they live without visiting their family and friends ???
Sorry I am not talking of those who despite staying in the same city don't find time to meet
I must admit Its hard to stay out of INDIA without visiting our family and friends for long intervals
6.20.2010
Random Thots
It is one of those time in our lives when we feel down for more than one reasons and we go into the analysis/questioning mode.I mean we introspect , retrospect,think,dwell about a few circumstances or situations which we had reacted or acted to.The decisions which we have taken are ...the implications of those decisions...life after that decision.
During this whole process of pondering or introspection we also think about the choice we had in lives at various times and give those choices a thought.Had we made that decision how life would have been today.Trust me life would definitely be different with that second decision but probably the experience we had with this one might not be guaranteed.There would always be this choices in life to make our decisions .The best part of these testing times is the actual character of the person.We keep hearing that we need to learn from others experiences ,which is partly rite .Situations ,experiences,people,time might all be the same but the individuals and their priorities are completely different.
There is always a battle among most of us about the kind of decisions we have to make and the results to it.I think I would like to give full credit to the current gen for this clarity or independence.I would like to mention that this is independence comes when there is abundance of information available on the subject matter.Today we need anything we just say "GOOGLE" and get all the info.
Must say life today is far simpler and complicated in many ways ...Things are available at a click today.
While drafting this post I vaguely remember reading this some where " It depends how you want to go to the graveyard(final destination) either in neatly ironed clothes or want to try everything in life make your clothes dirty with wine in one hand and chocolate in the other hand
What ever decision you make in life never repent and stand by it come what may.
During this whole process of pondering or introspection we also think about the choice we had in lives at various times and give those choices a thought.Had we made that decision how life would have been today.Trust me life would definitely be different with that second decision but probably the experience we had with this one might not be guaranteed.There would always be this choices in life to make our decisions .The best part of these testing times is the actual character of the person.We keep hearing that we need to learn from others experiences ,which is partly rite .Situations ,experiences,people,time might all be the same but the individuals and their priorities are completely different.
There is always a battle among most of us about the kind of decisions we have to make and the results to it.I think I would like to give full credit to the current gen for this clarity or independence.I would like to mention that this is independence comes when there is abundance of information available on the subject matter.Today we need anything we just say "GOOGLE" and get all the info.
Must say life today is far simpler and complicated in many ways ...Things are available at a click today.
While drafting this post I vaguely remember reading this some where " It depends how you want to go to the graveyard(final destination) either in neatly ironed clothes or want to try everything in life make your clothes dirty with wine in one hand and chocolate in the other hand
What ever decision you make in life never repent and stand by it come what may.
5.29.2010
GRATITUDE !!!!
Gratitude keeps us centered and wards off jealousy and negativity.
Here are five little things we can do each day to nourish our sense of gratitude:
1. Choose your friends wisely. If you strive to be spiritually strong, supportive, empowering, intelligent, energetic, and positive, seek those characteristics in others.
Help your friends develop more positive traits by living those positive traits yourself. Know what kind of friends will help you nurture your soul, and set out to find some.
2. Help your friends cultivate gratitude. Before you say anything about a friend's situation, remember that everyone's situation is unique. I've seen it happen to myself and to my friends. They'll be perfectly happy until someone tells them they're being mistreated. Suddenly, they're upset.
Don't let your friends wield such power, and work to avoid wielding such power yourself.
Day by day, hour by hour, make a goal to stop complaining about your life. Make a pact with your friends to cut the complaints from your conversations.
3. Give the gift of gratitude to your children. Help your children to be satisfied with the simple things while giving them the innate power and ability to achieve whatever they want in life...by living in such a way yourself.
4. Say "Thank You." Whom in your life do you appreciate? Let them know, whether it's your mom, your kids, your friends, your husband, your child's daycare provider or the helpful woman behind the cosmetics counter.
A heartfelt "thank you" often does the trick. Make it a habit and your attention will suddenly turn to all the things people do for you.
Also, write thank you notes regularly - not just after a gift exchange - and be mindful of all the ways you show your appreciation by the things you do in return.
Another idea: Spend 15 minutes writing a letter to your children. In this note, tell them how much you love them, why you're thankful for them, and all the ways they have enriched your life. This can be something you give them now or after they have grown.
5. Be mindful of the little things. Today, strive to be aware of all the aspects of your personal, professional, and family life for which you are thankful.
Take a few minutes today to appreciate nature. Go for a walk and notice only those things that are beautiful. Whether you focus on the stars above, a distant mountain range, or the cottonwood tree in your backyard, try to notice the details. Give thanks for the beauty that surrounds us.
Oprah Winfrey and Sarah Ban Breathnach, author of Simple Abundance, speak often of the importance of a Gratitude Journal, in which, at the end of each day, you record at least five things you're grateful for.
Regardless of whether you write down these items, spend some time each day to focus on the little things in your life that make each day special. Perhaps it's your child's toothless grin. A warm home. Delicious food enjoyed with family.
Together, let's work on focusing on what we have - not on what we don't have - and all the ways we can help one another have more gratitude for the gift of life.
Lets be grateful to everything that we have in life ...
Here are five little things we can do each day to nourish our sense of gratitude:
1. Choose your friends wisely. If you strive to be spiritually strong, supportive, empowering, intelligent, energetic, and positive, seek those characteristics in others.
Help your friends develop more positive traits by living those positive traits yourself. Know what kind of friends will help you nurture your soul, and set out to find some.
2. Help your friends cultivate gratitude. Before you say anything about a friend's situation, remember that everyone's situation is unique. I've seen it happen to myself and to my friends. They'll be perfectly happy until someone tells them they're being mistreated. Suddenly, they're upset.
Don't let your friends wield such power, and work to avoid wielding such power yourself.
Day by day, hour by hour, make a goal to stop complaining about your life. Make a pact with your friends to cut the complaints from your conversations.
3. Give the gift of gratitude to your children. Help your children to be satisfied with the simple things while giving them the innate power and ability to achieve whatever they want in life...by living in such a way yourself.
4. Say "Thank You." Whom in your life do you appreciate? Let them know, whether it's your mom, your kids, your friends, your husband, your child's daycare provider or the helpful woman behind the cosmetics counter.
A heartfelt "thank you" often does the trick. Make it a habit and your attention will suddenly turn to all the things people do for you.
Also, write thank you notes regularly - not just after a gift exchange - and be mindful of all the ways you show your appreciation by the things you do in return.
Another idea: Spend 15 minutes writing a letter to your children. In this note, tell them how much you love them, why you're thankful for them, and all the ways they have enriched your life. This can be something you give them now or after they have grown.
5. Be mindful of the little things. Today, strive to be aware of all the aspects of your personal, professional, and family life for which you are thankful.
Take a few minutes today to appreciate nature. Go for a walk and notice only those things that are beautiful. Whether you focus on the stars above, a distant mountain range, or the cottonwood tree in your backyard, try to notice the details. Give thanks for the beauty that surrounds us.
Oprah Winfrey and Sarah Ban Breathnach, author of Simple Abundance, speak often of the importance of a Gratitude Journal, in which, at the end of each day, you record at least five things you're grateful for.
Regardless of whether you write down these items, spend some time each day to focus on the little things in your life that make each day special. Perhaps it's your child's toothless grin. A warm home. Delicious food enjoyed with family.
Together, let's work on focusing on what we have - not on what we don't have - and all the ways we can help one another have more gratitude for the gift of life.
Lets be grateful to everything that we have in life ...
5.16.2010
HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!
They are special days in ones life...u'r showered with wishes,blessings,greetings,gifts,cakes,messages,e-mails from
our near n dear and also from people who have heard of you..
Birthdays are to be celebrated to make us refresh our memories over the years and make this year more special than the previous ones.
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu,
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu,
Happy Birrrrthday Dear Harsha ,
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu!
A few years back, not so long ago, heaven and earth erupted into a major celebration with the news of your impending adventure into this very time and space. You see, someone like you doesn't come along all that often. In fact, there's never been a single one like you, nor is there ever ANY possibility that another will come again. You're an Angel among us. Someone, whose eyes see what no others will EVER see, whose ears hear what no others will EVER hear, and whose perspective and feelings will NEVER, ever be duplicated. Without YOU, the Universe, and ALL THAT IS, would be sadly less than it is.
Quite simply:
You're the kind of person,
Who's hard to forget,
A one-in-a-million
To the people you've met.
Your friends are as varied
As the places you go,
And they all want to tell you
In case you don't know:
That you make a big difference
In the lives that you touch,
By taking so little
And giving so much!
You are so AWESOME! For your birthday, friends and angels from every corner of the Universe, including buddies you didn't know you had, will be with you to wish you the HAPPIEST of days and an exciting new year in time and space. You won't be alone!
The above message really moved me to tears when I read it .....Its really nice to make people feel special on their BIRTHDAYS....its their day
I believe firmly that ....the more number of people wish them,the more faster their dreams come true....
TRY IT ...IT WORKS
our near n dear and also from people who have heard of you..
Birthdays are to be celebrated to make us refresh our memories over the years and make this year more special than the previous ones.
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu,
Happy Birrrrthday Dear Harsha ,
Happy Birrrrthday to Youuuu!
A few years back, not so long ago, heaven and earth erupted into a major celebration with the news of your impending adventure into this very time and space. You see, someone like you doesn't come along all that often. In fact, there's never been a single one like you, nor is there ever ANY possibility that another will come again. You're an Angel among us. Someone, whose eyes see what no others will EVER see, whose ears hear what no others will EVER hear, and whose perspective and feelings will NEVER, ever be duplicated. Without YOU, the Universe, and ALL THAT IS, would be sadly less than it is.
Quite simply:
You're the kind of person,
Who's hard to forget,
A one-in-a-million
To the people you've met.
Your friends are as varied
As the places you go,
And they all want to tell you
In case you don't know:
That you make a big difference
In the lives that you touch,
By taking so little
And giving so much!
You are so AWESOME! For your birthday, friends and angels from every corner of the Universe, including buddies you didn't know you had, will be with you to wish you the HAPPIEST of days and an exciting new year in time and space. You won't be alone!
The above message really moved me to tears when I read it .....Its really nice to make people feel special on their BIRTHDAYS....its their day
I believe firmly that ....the more number of people wish them,the more faster their dreams come true....
TRY IT ...IT WORKS
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